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Episode 27

Published on:

11th Jan 2023

Taming the Green Eyed Monster & Colouring Outside the Lines

Episode27: Taming the Green Eyed Monster & Colouring Outside the Lines


Today my special guest is Dr. Joli Hamilton.

Dr. Joli Hamilton is the relationship coach for couples who color outside the lines. She is a research psychologist, TEDx speaker, best-selling author, and AASECT (pronounced ay-sect) certified sex educator. Joli also co-hosts the Playing with Fire podcast with her anchor partner, Ken. Joli’s been featured in The New York Times, Vogue, NPR, and The Atlantic. She’s spent the past two decades studying and reimagining what love can be if we open our imaginations to possibility. Joli helps people create non-monogamous partnerships that are custom-built for their authentic selves, no more shrinking, pretending, or hiding required.

Did you know there are different flavours of jealousy? Maybe you get angry, maybe you withdraw, maybe you get sad. It's important to know your style. It can help you recognize when you are feeling emotions of jealousy. Find out some important research about how jealousy shows up for people in different ways.

We also learn that jealousy is a triangle unlike envy which is a diad. They are not the same. Often we think they are the same but jealousy has a perceived disrupter to the relationship. We often get fearful and project our fear unto someone outside of our relationship.

Sometimes we even experience grief over something that hasn't happened. It's called anticipatory grief. There are just so many levels.

Sometimes relationships are not black or white. They can be colourful and full of nuance. I love that Dr. Joli helps people colour outside the lines. Not all relationships look the same and sometimes they can be messy and creative.

As a relationship Designer, I want you to understand that you have been programmed a certain way about what is write and wrong in relationship and about sexuality. We don't have to live by the brainwashing if we don't want to. There are so many choices.

Go live authentically and colour outside the lines if you choose!

Love, Karine

If you would like to get in contact with Dr. Joli, you can use the links below:

Dr. Joli's Facebook page

@drjoli_hamilton on Instagram

Dr. Joli's Website

Dr. Joli on YouTube

Dr. Joli Hamilton on LinkedIn

Are you tired of colouring in the lines and conformining to society's standards? Maybe it's time to work with me or even Dr. Joli Hamilton.

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Breaking Free Authentically: The Sex Positive Relationship Podcast
The Sex Positive Relationship Podcast
Learning how to Break Free from religious and social programming to truly live a life of authenticity and pleasure. We look at how shifting our mindset about Sex and Sexuality can radically change our relationships and allow them to be more fun, honest, safe, connected, ethical and authentic. We delve into Sex Positivity and what that is while also looking at things like Love Languages, Attachment Styles, and Boundaries to help us Break Free from relationship myths that are keeping us stuck in a world that isn't quite the right fit. We long for true authentic connections and the ability to completely be ourselves. Let's start living!
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Karine Bedard

You've heard, “Sex is wrong! Relationships are supposed to be hard work!”

What you probably didn’t learn is that sex is empowering and that relationships can be free, and fun, and empowered all at the same time! Karine kicks shame and guilt to the curb so that you can live your most authentic life the way that you want to.

She never in her wildest dreams imagined living the Empowered, Sexy, and Authentic life that she lives right now. Discovering Sex Positivity was the catalyst that allowed her to step out and explore a whole new world of possibilities! She is a Bible School Graduate turned Playboy Enthusiast! While studying the “worst of the worst”, she found her people.

Life is not always what we’ve been taught. Karine uses her magnetism, deep love of people and intuition to release her clients from the societal and religious boxes that they have been programmed into. She wants to inspire people to live their truth and discover their often deeply buried sexual desires and bring them to life in a safe and ethical way that empowers them and their relationships.

She is normalizing Ethical Non-Monogamy. She wants couples to step out and discover the beauty and power of true honesty, authenticity, and confidence in relationships. Looking at the world through a Sex Positive lens will absolutely shift how you understand relationships.

She uses her magnetism and transparency to make you feel safe and seen. Her intuition allows her to see exactly what is holding you back in life and her ability to really see you makes you feel accepted and safe with her. Through her openness and vulnerability she is able to transform your fears into joy and excitement. She is the best at bringing you safely into this Sex Positive world without fear or regret. She guides you every step of the way.

She wants more for you than the script you’ve been fed, “Find your soulmate, marry them, and be monogamous forever!” There is so much more than this in life. Step out and finally Break Free!